Throughout history there have been major changes to our society caused by numerous social factors. Factors such as economics, technology, education, and values are just some of the causes of the "Evolution" of our society. These dramatic changes that have been made to our society have greatly changed the way we see certain things. Consequently, one rather serious question must be asked, what type of marriage is best suited for a society like todays which is constantly changing and evolving?
Firstly, a marital union is defined as a social union or legal contract between individuals that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged in a variety of ways, depending on the culture or subculture in which it is found. That being said, due to these changes there are several types of marital unions that take place in our society. Same sex marriages have become extremely common and accepted and the traditional form of monogamous marriage between a man and a woman remains intact in our society. Interestingly, in certain areas of North America (particularly in the State of Utah) polygamy a union in which there are multiple spouses is not only practiced but also tolerated. However, one question still remains: Which of these unions is best for today's society?
As we all know, the typical "Nuclear Family" has been the backbone of our idea for what a family should resemble for a very long time. However, considering what is happening in our society today is this true? Although some would argue against the traditional family, which has been a constant in American society for an excruciatingly long time. I must assert my firm belief that it is still the best type of union for today’s society. Being raised in an environment like this myself, I believe it is both very effective and instrumental in raising children to become productive members of society and to create a unified family. For example, within this family a father is able to show his son how to become a man and a mother can show her daughter how to become a woman. Secondly, the tradition man and woman monogamous union creates a nurturing environment for a child. This is done by having several family members that are a part of the “Nuclear Family” thereby creating a comforting environment.
In conclusion, although there are many types of unions that are large parts of our society. I must side with the side in which I believe is best suited for our society due to my belief that the traditional monogamous union between a man and a woman is still the union that is best suited for a society that is in constant change. Being raised by two parents in this union I can say that I turned out “OK”. However, I am in no way ruling out all other types of unions.
Your blog, as usual, is very well written. I like how you put the definition of everything you spoke of into your text.
ReplyDeleteI don't agree with your point of view. In our society, kids have so many resources to learn how to be a "proper" man or woman. You should also check this video out on TED: http://bit.ly/ieQZps about the idea of what a man is. Also, you're only looking at the benefits of this union for the child, which is a good start, though there are other things that have to be taken into account.
Even though I did not agree with your stance, your presented your points very well.
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ReplyDeleteWell done once again Mason! I really enjoyed reading your post! It flowed well and you seemed to know your topic well as one can tell with your well-developped descriptions. I as well enjoyed your hyperlinks, which were very interesting.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I felt was lacking was facts or examples at times to justify your arguments. On the other hand, your personal examples served as an intriguing way of expressing your stance. In addition, my stance was far different from yours but you expressed your stance well and I was interested in reading your arguments.
Overall, your text was well constructed and I thought your vocabulary was very impressive. Good Job!
Mason, excellent blog post as usual. You defined your points of view very well and got your meanings across properly and quite convincingly. I also found that you used very good wording through out your entire blog post.
ReplyDeleteI don't fully agree on your opinion on "how to become a man" or "woman" because if you look at society today, is there really a typical sense of a man or woman? I believe there is not...families with cooking husbands and working wives and vice versa could prove this, but nevertheless, i find this to be an excellent blog post Mason.
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ReplyDeleteMason, not suprised, again another great blog post. Although, there are some points i do not agree with such as a marriage between a man and a woman is the best union for new social adaption. I feel that in the future, homosexual and singular parents would be equal alternatives as far as unions go. But that is just my opinion.
ReplyDeleteMase im gonna be honest, the writing is good, but i don't hear your voice behind it, it sounds like you're trying to use intelligent words just for the sake of using them. personally, i think that your content is good, although i find marriage in general won't survive passed the next 30 or 40 years because it's out-dated, and it makes people feel confined, but regardless i think your blog is good, just try to sound more like yourself, and less how you THINK you should sound. besides isn't the whole point of a blog that you can speak like yourself without the confines of the press, or classroom.
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